5 Ways to Make Sure Your Pet and Child are Besties

5 Ways to Make Sure Your Pet and Child are Besties

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Thinking about our days here at home, and how baby FLO and Benny follow each other around all day. From exploring  the backyard, to trying out each other’s toys and sometimes snacks,  and then sharing the dog bed. It’s hard to think back to a life before they were such a twosome. Or, that I was ever worried whether Benny would accept the baby. I certainly think a lot of the credit goes to Benny on this one, and his naturally loving disposition. On the other hand, we also took steps to help our dog and baby get along. So I thought I’d share them with you.  Read on for  5 ways to make sure your pet and child are besties. Also, don’t forget to scroll all the way down to find out about two amazing contests you can enter your little one in to win big!

5 Ways to Make Sure Your Pet and Child are Besties

5 Ways to Make Sure Your Pet and Child are Besties

5 Ways to Make Sure Your Pet and Child are Besties

1. Introducing Your Baby to Your Pet

We did a lot of research online and there seemed to be a clear  consensus for how to introduce your baby to your pet. Before coming home with baby FLO from the hospital, Mau checked in on Benny and brought over the baby’s blanket. We hoped this would help Benny understand we were coming home with something new. Once we were home with the baby, we allowed Benny to smell the baby, and I made sure to pet Benny as I held baby FLO.

We never had any issues or concerns with Benny showing aggression towards FLO. As a mama, I would suggest that you trust your gut. You know your pet best. I never left Benny alone with the baby, unless the baby was safe in his crib or jumper.

2. Include Your Pet in Your New Routine

We included Benny in our new rituals whenever possible. We would take walks as a new family of four, and I would let Benny stay in the nursery when I nursed FLO and when he would take his naps. In those early weeks and months, the three of us. Me, Benny and the Baby spent all of our time in the same space.

3. Give Your Pet Extra Attention

The first couple weeks at home with the baby were  a blur. I was overwhelmed with baby FLO and did not have anything left for Benny. That’s where Mau came in. He was sure to still give lots of attention to Benny, especially because I could hardly remember if I ate, let alone whether I fed the dog. Early motherhood is so tough! Delegating helped keep our Benny happy, when mom wasn’t around.

4. Show Your Baby How to Treat Your Pet

Now that FLO is a toddler and likes to grip, throw and chase, Benny was immediately his first target. What kid wouldn’t want to grab on to a wagging tail? But, as parents we had to step in and demonstrate when and how it is ok to touch Benny. I always keep an eye out on those two, and there are definitely moments when FLO isn’t as gentle with Benny as I would like him to be. But, Benny is typically very patient.

If I sense that Benny is getting agitated, I do step in and try to give him a break from the baby. Toddlers are non-stop and even the dog needs a break! You know your pet best, so paying attention to how your dog is responding is key in maintaining a healthy boundary between your pet and baby.



5 Have Baby Help Care for Your Pet

FLO is only 1 1/2 but he already has responsibilities at home! One of which is feeding Benny.  As regulars at Target, I pick up Purina® ONE® Smartblend for our oversized Beagle because it has the balanced nutrition that can support his well being, and real meat fish or poultry is always the number one ingredient.

We of course can’t get out of Target without picking up all the snacks for baby FLO too. He is a fan of most Gerber® snacks. More specifically the Gerber Graduates Strawberry Yogurt Melts Freeze-Dried Yogurt & Fruit Snacks, and the Lil’ Crunchies. They’re great snacks to have on-hand or on the go.

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Sidenote, last week at Target the sales clerk at check out said FLO gets cuter every time she sees him. Does this mean we go to Target way too often?

Like every parent, I think baby FLO has what it takes to be a “Gerber baby,” but since I am partnering up with Purina One and Gerber, he won’t be eligible to enter. But,  if you have a little one you should definitely enter these two contests. Read below for details. 

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  • Reply Five Tips to Help Your Toddler Be A Less Picky Eater | Besos, Alina January 25, 2021 at 8:04 AM

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  • Reply Sandra October 6, 2017 at 9:17 AM

    We should hang out soon, I gotta squeeze on those cheeks and love on Benny too!

    • Reply ... besos, ALINA October 11, 2017 at 8:21 AM

      Yes! We should plan a dinner or something! I’d love it

  • Reply Samantha Kuzyk October 5, 2017 at 8:20 AM

    Great tips! Sooo important to make sure the kids and animals get along, and that the dog still gets some attention too, that’s something that I still struggle with!

    • Reply ... besos, ALINA October 11, 2017 at 8:21 AM

      YEs, they’re both of our babies so everyone needs attention!

  • Reply Nita Okoye (@inhalelovewithN) October 5, 2017 at 1:07 AM

    i don’t have pets but my brother does and when he doesn’t know any new family member and relative he gets really aggressive

  • Reply Nita Okoye (@inhalelovewithN) October 5, 2017 at 1:00 AM

    These are really great tips! thanks for sharing.

  • Reply Katie @ Book Ink Reviews October 4, 2017 at 7:12 PM

    I love all these ideas! We also made sure to bring home a hat from the hospital before the baby comes home and while the dog was a puppy we hassled him a bit while he ate or played so that he wouldn’t be prone to snapping.

  • Reply Cath | This Mama Learns October 4, 2017 at 6:39 PM

    Hi Alina, great post! I was so worried about introducing my little one to our pet chihuahua. We kind of did the steps as you suggested, and now, at 2 he loves helping to feed her. She’s still often the recipient of too much toddler enthusiasm, but what’s helped has been having a cat flap on our balcony door so she can get away when she needs to. Toddlers are non-stop and relentless!

  • Reply Francesca October 4, 2017 at 4:51 PM

    These are all great tips! They are the cutest little besties!

  • Reply Kari October 4, 2017 at 12:28 PM

    These are such great tips! Cutest pictures too 🙂

  • Reply Vicki @ Babies to Bookworms October 4, 2017 at 11:09 AM

    These are all fantastic tips! We did a lot of research before bringing our little one home too, and it really helped us feel more confident. In addition to letting the dog smell her hat before bringing her in, we also had a bone for him “from her”. They have been best friends ever since!

  • Reply Jenna Wood October 2, 2017 at 3:49 PM

    This is too precious! I don’t have kids but I did make sure my boyfriend fed the pets when he moved in- food really helps strengthen a growing bond! #client

    • Reply ... besos, ALINA October 2, 2017 at 4:46 PM

      Yes, I think our pets always know who feeds them! Thanks for reading ✨

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